Sisters


Thought you might like to read this. Our Peer Support Project is formed to encourage and enable just this kind of Mother-to-Mother Support:  


A young wife sat on a sofa one hot, humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.'

'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women...
your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.'

What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought.    Haven't I just gotten married?     Haven't I just joined the couple-world?    I'm now a  married woman, for goodness sake! A grown-up! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact  with her Sisters and made more women friends each  year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really  knew what she was talking about.  

As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,   Sisters are the mainstays of her life.


After more than 80 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:

THIS SAYS IT ALL:

Time passes.

Life happens.

Distance separates.

Children grow up.

Jobs come and go.

Love waxes and wanes.

Men don't do what they're supposed to do.

Hearts break.

Parents die.

Colleagues forget favors.

Careers end.

BUT..........

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how
many miles are between you.. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you
have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life
will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on,
praying  for you, pulling for you, intervening on
your  behalf, and  waiting with open arms at the
valley's end.

Sometimes, they will even  break the rules and walk
beside  you...Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters,  daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The  world wouldn't be the same without women, and
neither would I. When we began this adventure called
womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or
sorrows that lay ahead.. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still.

{source: My Aunt!}

1 comment:

36D said...

That's lovely - I hadn't seen it! :) Thank you for sharing.

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